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girlboyburger · 2 years ago

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Its-using animals club!

Alas i feel your pain, especially when someone's go-to response is "isn't using it/its dehumanizing?"

right. like. it doesn't matter if you think it's dehumanizing. it's what i want to be called, and like my name, you'll call me by it / its or we will not be having further conversation.

to me, personally, that's like. kind of a huge part of the appeal? full respect to those living in the "it can be a moment, it can be the mountains or the sunset" because, me too! but also a massive appeal to it / its is i can easily sum my gender up as some kinda boygirlthing. it/its he/she. like an animal you don't know the gender of.

#i know i already rambled about it in the tags of the of post so i wont ramble too much more but #my realtionship with my gender is funky and has been a very very very VERY long road #but at the end of that road ive realized that. labels (for me) are overrated. theyve always kinda mean what they mean to the person using #them. and give a vauge understanding of what they mean to the person hearing those labels #like. i don't consider myself nonbinary. i *AM* binary to some degree #i also wouldnt consider myself trans fem or trans masc. i'm trans. i'm pretty often seen as both or either. so ah. if the shoe fits.#i'm wearing them with ripped shorts and a collar #not to mention leaning fem or masc or neutral for me is tied heavily to my relationship with others.#if i'm with a girl i fancy myself more of a butch and if i'm with a guy i fancy myself more of a bear (✨)#<- (that's a special lil fem twist. imagine i flipped my hair or smthn)#but. that's a whole other can of worms and i've already lied and started rambling in the tags #i love you queer. if no label got my back i know queer got my back.#ask #cryptidchiroptera

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